Christians and Love, Christians and Sex
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Your spouse has sexual needs.


I did not say your spouse wants to have sex. They need it. It is necessary for them to function optimally. It is necessary for their mental health.


I am not just referring to men. Women too need sex. They need it to relieve stress. They need it more than you do.


You will be very insensitive to marry someone and deprive them of sex, knowing they cannot have it anywhere else.


Let me say it again. If you deprive your partner of sex knowing you are the only one they can have it with, it is either you are ignorant, insensitive, or plain wicked.


It is not optional. It is not when you feel like. It is a duty that you must find a way to fulfil.


If there is something not fine with your system, your spouse deserves to know. If there is a reason sex is not possible at the moment, they should have the full information. 


You can both seek solutions together or explore alternative means of meeting their need for sex.


Against all odds, just know that sex is an integral aspect of your marriage relationship.


Love❤️ Ndu David